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My husband told me that he wants to take hatha yoga with one of his female classmates. Inappropriate or fine?
Question by ChinaRain80: My husband told me that he wants to take hatha yoga with one of his female classmates. Inappropriate or fine?
This seems inappropriate to me. He said nothing is going on between he and this girl. I have reservations. She had a major issue a few weeks ago and the first person she called for help was my husband, even though she has other friends, including a boyfriend. This all seems odd to me. She Is something probably up or am I paranoid?
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Answer by Yes I am here!!
something is up
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Extremely inappropriate. If something isn’t already up, it will be soon.
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LikeDislikeI would say inappropriate. Just as it would be if you did the same with some other man.
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LikeDislikeHe wants to do the nasty with her. No if’s and’s or but’s about it.
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LikeDislikei think that she is so dependent on your husband is inappropriate. he might just want to do something with a friend, but the other woman needs to back off. thats how affairs get started
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LikeDislikeI think you’re reacting normally. If this is something you’re genuinely not comfortable with, then your husband should honor that. Perhaps you can find something the two of YOU can do together instead.
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LikeDislikeGo w/your insticts they never lie. I would ask your husband why he wants to take it and w/her then i would suggest instead of u taking it w/her why dont we take it together. If he says no hire dectitive.
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LikeDislikeProbably nothing is up but I bet your husband would love for something to happen. I think it might be a start of an affair and it sounds like it is already emotional. Take the Yoga class with him.
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LikeDislikeDoesn’t sound all on the up and up to me.
Why don’t you suggest that you’ll go too, to the yoga class and see what kind of reaction you’ll get.
But no, you are not being paranoid
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LikeDislikeyou are just paranoid… if love and trust ur husband then you should do the yogo classes….. if u get the feeling like somthing is happening then ask him if u can go some time wiht him… tell him that u are intrested in joining
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LikeDislikeIt’s inappropriate! Why then doesn’t he take his wife to these yoga classes, why is he not saying that he will attend only if his wife attends.!? Be paranoid! Not gulable!
It is nice you are so relaxed and let him do as he wishes with class mates but this is going a bit too far! He is married to you and I would demand that he start acting like it or else!
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LikeDislikeWhy doesn’t he take classes w/you, ask him that, or ask if you can join too, that should put a damper on things if there is anything going on.
If he says no to you, then tell him to forget about joining w/her, if he still insists on going tell him” fine you’ll find me at the bar w/my guy friends ”
He told you because if they’re is something going on he wants you to think that there isn’t.
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LikeDislikeI’m not sure, but if your husband seems to be the first person she calls, seems like her relationship with her boyfriend is not all that. Sometimes some people rely on friends of the opposite sex for friendship that can be misunderstood or mistaken by the other person involved. There’s always a chance that something could happen, but my belief is if that whole yoga issue doesn’t feel good by you then I believe you need to tell your husband and he should respect that and not continue with the yoga. Having said that, if the situation were reversed and he told you that he felt uncomfortable about you spending time doing something with a male friend then you need to respect that as well and not continue with it. What’s right for one is right for all.
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LikeDislikeexactly why doesn’t he take a class with you
TOTALLY INAPPROPRIATE.
I WOULD BE PIST!
ITS AS IF HE WAS DANCING WITH SOMEONE ELSE RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOUR FACE. A REAL SLOW CLOSE BODY TO BODY CONTACT DANCE.
WHAT IS WRONG WITH THAT OTHER WOMAN.
I WOULD HAVE SOME WORDS WITH HER.
NO YOUR NOT PARANOID!
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LikeDislikeInappropriate, he should be taking yoga with you not some other female. When you are married there is a line you don’t cross and your husband is walking a thin line. He needs to cut off the relationship with this female, she is being disrespectful to the fact that he has a wife! You are not paranoid at all, your feelings are valid. Sounds to me that he is trying to get your permission to be up to no good, don’t give it to him!
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LikeDislikeWhat should really disturb you is that your husband is doing Yoga. How about hockey or baseball or tennis?
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LikeDislikedefinitly inappropriate…..always trust your gut….and just to see his reaction…tell him you’ve been thinking of joining a new workout program and would love to come along.
and for all those married men out there who just may read this question and responses…I don’t care how trustworthy you are….unless they are female friends you’ve had all your life (like from 6th grade) and unless your wife is also friends with them….then to do anything solely with a female who is not your wife is highly, highly inappropriate.
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